• Free yourself

  • Embrace your erotic body

  • Turn off your ‘offs’ and turn on your ’ons’

  • Reveal your authentic sexuality

  • Be playful and sexy at your pace

The Desire Kit

Dive Deep Unlock your Lust
from Question Mark to Pleasure

and learn all about my sexuality in a safe and fun way

A 6-week online Deep Dive journey
for curious people



Embodied Consent

Your ‘yes’ and ‘no’

Erotic Types


Sexual Temperament

Discover yours


Unlock your Lust


Warm-hearted and experienced Somatic Sexological Coach & Trainer, trained in Australia and Berlin. She offers a safe space to let go of shame and learn new and wonderful sexuality.


……..you are having an intimate, erotic encounter and for the first time in your life, you know and feel what truly turns you on. You are clear in what you love to experience and ask for it. You are in the here and now. You feel safe in your body because your boundaries are clear. Because you are super curious and excited to connect deeply with the other you both agree on what kind of encounter you are into. Finally, you’re able to surrender to ecstasy. What a dream…..

As for most dreams they can differ greatly from reality.

I’m Arati and to be honest…….for a long time I’ve been wondering about sexuality.  After discovering my own sexuality I expected that being together with someone else could only become more exciting and beautiful. However, due to my own and my very first lover’s clumsiness, it turned out to be totally different……I learned that I had to hide my dreams and longings to fit in. This remained in silence for years. Many of us have similar experiences.

So, you wish to experience the dream, but you don’t know how to get it. Because every time you have a sexual encounter your dark inner voices are there…….

And these things keep on happening:

‘I think it is important that many more people get to know their body and
their sexuality in this way.

Not only for having nice sexual contacts but also for feeling good in your body’.


  • you may not love your body as it is
  • you dissociate often during sex (grocery lists)
  • you feel numbness
  • you have a ‘missing’ feeling
  • you have ideas about ‘how it should be’
  • you blame yourself for not being able to enjoy sexuality
  • you almost never seem to find the right ‘match’
  • you blame your partners (secretly) for not being the right lover
  • you feel shame about not having a great sex life
  • you may feel shame anyway
  • you don’t know what you like
  • you can’t get what you like
  • you don’t know how to communicate
  • you don’t know how to receive

‘Change happens when we are brave enough to bring our silent questions into the light and learn to enjoy our curiosity’

– Ârati – 

‘Learning about my sexuality together with doing and feeling helped me enormously to break down my conviction. I feel so much more free and sexy.

Thank you, Arati for your beautiful work and energy’.

I get you

I completely get that you long for enjoying orgasmic sensations in your body whether you’re with yourself or with a partner, for intimacy and connection, for being touched the way you love it, and above all, you want it to be new and different!

I get you when you just want to be able to feel connected and seen, and to be able to understand what it is that genuinely turns you and your partner on, without losing yourself and enjoying it to the full.

I get you totally when you crave variety, fun, and playfulness. Missing these can feel so empty. But how to bring them back or find them? How to turn it around?

Well, I can help you to get this clear in the deep dive ‘The Desire Kit’!

How? Not by deep psychotherapeutic digging but by discovering step by step where you are right now, and where you want to be, using the amazing insights and learnings I received from life, my own body, my experiences with my clients in my somatic sex education practice, and all the teachings that helped me to understand how things work.

I can’t tell you how deeply thankful and enthusiastic I am about all answers, exercises, and playfulness I’m offering you in this six-week training!

So, are you truly done with average or no sex, no intimacy, and  a lack of self-love?

It might be time to join The Desire Kit 😉

‘Arati has an enormous amount of knowledge that she conveys as if it were the most normal thing in the world’.


What’s in The Desire Kit?

Week 1: Making up the balance, where are you right now and where do you want to be at the end of these six weeks?

Week 2: Embodied Consent, finding your true yes and no, playing touch dynamics

Week 3: Your personal core erotic theme, where does it come from, what erotic type are you? Looking at your shadows

Week 4: Your sexual temperament, brakes and accelerators, healing shadows. Creating your perfect context for intimacy

Week 5: Building bridges to desire, feeding your and each other’s erotic type. Your ‘how’ match with your or a partner. How to feed yourself.

Week 6: Unlocking your Lust: Fantasy & Polarity. Discover what’s yours and play with it. It’s all about love, attraction, and playfulness

Every week is filled with embodied and fun exercises, a video and audio, made to find your own custom way of learning!

What will be my result when I join The Desire Kit?

At the end of the course, you

  • know what turns you on because you understand your erotic type
  • feel happy because of the wondrous clarity of how things work for you
  • found all your answers getting into your pleasure
  • learned that diving deep is fun!
  • transformed your dark voices into playfulness and lust

This is my offer

🙌 Weekly start of the week: explanation & assignments

🙌 Weekly Coaching Call /Q and A with Arati 

🙌 Weekly emails, videos, exercises, and audios based on the five elements of Touch: self-love, self-touch, embodied-talk, taking-in, and surrender.

🙌 Private Facebook group to connect and share your findings, experiences, and questions

🙌 A special Bonus!

Get your juices flowing by diving deep into your own wonderful sexuality in a safe and fun way! It’s about time, isn’t it?

That’s why I have an offer for you:

The regular price of this amazing ‘letting the scales fall off your eyes’ course is € 497,-

BUT till 11th of January midnight, the price will be € 297,-