Not everyone knows this about me but I’m totally at ease with everything about shame and taboo which is very often in the realm of sexuality and intimacy. So I can learn people to become friends with it and with themselves as well. I am an invitation to come with your deepest secrets, shame, pain, grief, etc. to transform this into ease, openness, and joy.
It hasn’t been always easy to fully celebrate my special and unique gifts but my clients who I prefer to call ‘students’ keep telling me how much they benefit from this ease, this making everything and everyone normal and beautiful at the same time.
I offer somatic sexological coaching & training. I call it ‘Sexual Discovery’. It is a combination of deep tissue bodywork, breathwork, sexological bodywork, consent lessons, sex education, deep soul work, emdr, dancing, crying, voice work, laughing, and celebrating. Besides this, there’s a special ‘Arati color, smell, and taste’ which makes you feel at home immediately. My clients call it openness and being directly mixed with humor and compassion. For me, it’s just who I am.
You might wonder about my experience when you read this……well, I come from a family in which loving touch, empathy, and compassion weren’t important. They simply didn’t exist, and this was also the case with openness around sexuality. Seeking love and attention with no clue about love and intimacy I enrolled in all kinds of sexual abusive situations. My way of protecting my inner self was dissociating from my body. Something a lot of women know.
Till my 45th I lived like this, even during my marriage. Like in a lot of relationships my cramped sexual behavior became a large problem for myself and my partner. My deep wish to stay connected with my partner made me curious and craving for an answer to what was wrong with me (of course 😉). So in 2006, I started on my path in consciousness development as a student of my teacher Yoyo.
Since then I have been captivated by discovering the inner beauty in myself and every other person, through every manifestation. This made me decide to start to work with people, their bodies, and their souls in my practice. During this period till nowadays I always kept on mirroring myself in every issue, my clients came up with, which resulted in a lot of personal breakthroughs.
With pain, wonder and enthusiasm I went through processes like ‘No more fun in my relationship’, ‘No more fun in sex’, ‘Help I have breast cancer’, ‘My husband makes love to another woman’, ‘How can be I free with a family? ” Do I still count? “. I have developed a willingness and curiosity to look inside and investigate everything that touches me. Sometimes this is painful and confrontational, but it also resolves to limit beliefs, resulting in greater relaxation.